I figured out how to code! Or at least enough to update my blogroll which can now be found under the "Other Views to Ponder" tab at the top of the page (oh yeah, I also figured out how to add tabs!).
So I moved my blogroll which was previously on the sidebar to its new home, where it now will update automatically. Thanks to Kim for sending me this link which showed me how to keep my blogroll synced and then answering some (ridiculously easy for her) HTML questions I had. I love when I can get things to work around here.